What defines a Christian? At its core, it is someone who follows Jesus unconditionally.
There are certain markers that help us discern what our walk with Jesus looks like. In this series, we’ll explore a list of seven key markers—not exhaustive, but meaningful—that can help us assess our personal growth in faith and encourage one another in accountability.
We begin at the very beginning…
sermon: 7 Markers of a Disciple: Beginning with the First (Exodus 20:3) with Rev. Alvin Lau
The Ten Commandments: A Love Letter from God
When most people think of the Ten Commandments, they picture a list of rules—a spiritual checklist of do’s and don’ts. But what if we’ve misunderstood their purpose? What if, instead of a test, they are a love letter from God?
God’s Invitation to Relationship
Unlike distant gods of ancient cultures, the God of the universe came near to His people. He met them face to face, not because they were special or deserving, but because He wanted them to understand what it means to live the life He created for them—a life of love and trust.
The Bible often describes the church as the “bride of Christ.” This imagery comes from the Jewish wedding tradition, which includes three key steps:
- laquah – “To take or claim.” The groom says, I want you to be part of my life.
- segullah – “Special treasure.” The groom declares, I could have chosen anyone, but I choose you.
- ketubah – “Contract” or covenant. A mutual understanding of how to live together.
God uses this same language with His people. In Exodus 6:7, He says, “I will claim you as my own people.” Later, in Exodus 19:5, He calls Israel His segullah —His special treasure.
The Heart Behind the Commandments
When God gave the Ten Commandments, it wasn’t to earn His acceptance. He had already chosen them. The commandments were a covenant—a way to live in harmony with Him. The first commandment, “You shall have no other gods before me,” isn’t about God’s insecurity. It’s about trust. If He is truly God—the Creator—then He knows the best way for us to live.
Anything that takes priority over God—whether ambition, possessions or even good things—becomes a rival god. God invites us to put Him first, not by force, but by choice.
Jesus’ Fulfillment of the Promise
Centuries later, Jesus echoed this invitation: “The time has come. The kingdom of God is near. Repent and believe the good news” (Mark 1:15). Repentance means turning from our way to His way—trusting Him wholeheartedly, even when we don’t fully understand.